At Oranum, we are proud to feature some of the most intuitive and insightful psychics in the world. One of our top experts, LoveDrNikki, has years of experience helping seekers find clarity in love, relationships, and life’s biggest questions. Her deep understanding of tarot, destiny, and energy work has made her one of the most trusted guides on Oranum.
In this exclusive interview, LoveDrNikki shares her wisdom on how to prepare for a reading, the most powerful tarot spread she’s ever done, and her personal philosophy on destiny and free will.
1. How can I prepare to get the most accurate reading?
“There are a variety of ways to prepare for a reading to help ensure the most accurate insight possible. First, have an idea of what you want the reader to look into for you. Some people choose to meditate on their question before the reading, while others prefer to set the space by lighting a candle or incense, or smudging with sage to clear their energy.
Most importantly, enter the reading with a heart and mind open to receiving the messages meant for you. While we all have desires for how we wish things would turn out, the best readings come when you are receptive to the truth, even if it’s not what you expected.”
2. What’s the most powerful tarot reading you’ve ever done?
“Every reading I do is important to me, but one in particular stands out from several years ago on Oranum. A woman came to me asking if she was in the right relationship. I used a 3×3 spread (three rows of three cards), and the message was undeniable. The spread included cards like the 8 of Swords, 9 of Wands, 2 of Swords, The Hanged Man, 5 of Wands, and 4 of Coins—all pointing toward conflict, uncertainty, and emotional stagnation.
I explained that the cards showed a man who was unwilling to step up, and that the relationship would likely be tumultuous. She admitted that the reading confirmed everything she had been feeling but was afraid to acknowledge. The very next day, she ended the relationship.
A few weeks later, she returned to thank me. It turned out that her ex had been involved in illegal activity and was arrested just days after her reading. The tarot had not only given her clarity—it had helped her walk away before she became entangled in his downfall.”
3. What is your personal philosophy on destiny vs. free will?
“I don’t see destiny and free will as opposing forces; rather, they balance one another. Destiny is the soul’s blueprint—the lessons and experiences we are meant to encounter in this lifetime. You can think of it as the framework of your life.
However, free will determines how we move within that framework. It’s the choices we make that shape our experiences, the decisions that create the details of our path. Destiny cannot be avoided, but free will dictates how difficult or easy our journey will be.
In essence, destiny is the lesson, and free will is how we choose to learn it.“
4. How do you help someone ask the right questions for a psychic reading?
“The way a question is phrased is one of the most important factors in a reading. If a seeker asks a vague or misaligned question, they might not receive the insight they truly need.
If someone proposes a question that won’t get them the best clarity, I help them refine it. For instance, there’s a big difference between asking:
🔹 ‘Does he love me?’
🔹 ‘Are we meant to be together?’
While both questions are about love, they lead to entirely different readings. The first seeks to confirm emotions, while the second explores long-term compatibility and fate. If a client isn’t sure what to ask, I take the time to understand what they really want to know and guide them toward the right question.”
Get a Reading with LoveDrNikki on Oranum!
Whether you’re seeking guidance on love, relationships, career, or your life’s purpose, LoveDrNikki is here to provide clarity and insight. With her expertise in tarot, energy work, and deep intuitive wisdom, she can help you find the answers you’ve been searching for.
🔮 Connect with LoveDrNikki on Oranum today for a live reading!