All posts tagged: love ourselves

Self  Love

Self  Love in Relationships

The conventional way in which people view love within the context of relationships is through loving another person. What people tend to forget though is that loving yourself is just as important for any relationship to thrive. Being in a relationship without self love can result in a lot of pain and anguish. Self love may seem selfish, but it is impossible to have a truly intimate relationship without this component.  What do we mean when we say self love? This term has only been brought into popularity in recent years. However, it remains a difficult concept to grasp for most people. Self love is a trait that is meant to enhance the way a person thinks, feels, and acts towards one’s self. It’s also one of the most powerful tools we have to help us onto a path of personal growth and development.  Oranum Love Psychics are available 24/7 to give you right advice! When people seek to begin a relationship with another person, they often gear towards adapting behaviors aimed towards impressing the person they’re trying to win over. This isn’t necessarily detrimental in itself. However, if this leads to compromising your inner beliefs, values, and personality, it paves the …

Goddess

The Triple Goddess – stages of a woman’s life

Goddess – strong representation of the feminine energy The Goddess is at the heart off all nature religions. Her feminine energies are equal to the God, who is also known at times as her consort. For women this is wonderful, as we can see strong representations of what it means to be a woman. For men it is amazing, as they can have more feminine energies to enjoy and connect with too. The Goddess is known as ‘The Triple Goddess’ as she has three aspects- Maiden, Mother and Crone. These represent stages of a woman’s life, her monthly cycles, and also the phases of The Moon. It’s never too late to ask for spiritual guidance, talk to our psychic today! The waxing or growing Moon represents the Maiden: adventuring, hunting and free. The full Moon represents the Mother Goddess: full of powerful creativity energy and new life. And the waning Moon represents the Crone, where the wisdom is drawing inwards and incredibly powerful. The Crone is also depicted as a traditional ‘witch’ and her power …

self-esteem

Amour-propre

Self-esteem – a game-changing recognition… Many people have already told you that you must have more “amour-propre”, in fact, the lack of self-esteem so many times is the cause of failures (just like the opposite: excess). It can be the cause of many renounces and mistakes, and you can’t imagine how many times it has happened to me in the past as well. It all changed after I started to understand what it exactly means to increase self-worth, self-trust and self-confidence. If you trust God you trust yourself and vice-versa. This was a game-changing recognition for me. What does it really mean to you to respect someone? Do you love that person or rather appreciate what they do? You need an intuitive guide? Talk to a psychic now! Note that it is quite hard to truly respect someone without the feeling of love. This also means that in the process of building up your self-confidence and self-esteem it’s essential to start loving yourself. You esteem someone when you think that person is competent in something. You esteem …

Why Is It So Hard to Love Ourselves?

Unless you are a narcissist, you probably have moments about yourself that make you want to vanish off the face of the earth whenever you remember them. The specifics about what makes a person cringe because of themselves is as unique as we all are, but the experience of that embarrassed feeling where you wish you could crawl (or fall) into a hole is truly universal. Why is it for many of us we can never get past the cringe and forgive ourselves to be able to love ourselves? It’s almost like that Mary Lambert’s song, “Secrets.” In her immutably quirky way, the songstress points out the quick answer as to why it is so hard to love ourselves in the chorus: “They tell us from the time we’re young. To hide the things that we don’t like about ourselves, inside ourselves.” Although delivered in the artist’s tongue-in-cheek style, the lyrics are not all the way wrong – she makes a point. From an early age, we are taught to hide our weaknesses and focus on our strengths, …