Your parents ruin your relationship? Why is that? Well, your parents have raised you and as such they are always going to be protective no matter which stage of your life you’re in. That said, there is a fine line between being protective and intrusive.
It’s okay for your or your partner’s parents to keep a look out for you and your interests. However, they shouldn’t have the power to influence your decisions. This will only spell doom for you and your partner.
When in a relationship, look out for these red flags and try to navigate them in a way that doesn’t harm your relationship, with either your parents or your significant others’:
- Your parents ruin your relationship if they intrude into your personal space without asking for consent – If your parents are the type that don’t know how to leave you alone, you have a problem. Maybe you’ve had an argument with your boyfriend/husband and would just like to take some time to yourself. But your parents are “worried” and fail to understand your need for a timeout. They need to reevaluate their expectations from you and respect your wishes more.
- Your parents think you are incapable of making sound decisions by yourself – You may have a steady job and a loving relationship with your partner, but your parents still think of you as a baby. They don’t think you are responsible enough to take your own decisions for yourself. If this is the case, you need to let your parents know where to draw the line.
- They are not willing to share your time or attention – As you grow up and more people come to stake a claim on your time and attention, your parents need to understand that you only have limited time and energy. They can no longer expect you to focus all your energy on them. It is selfish on their part if they continue to expect the same out of you as they did when you were a child.
Sometimes parental interference can be extremely toxic and indeed parents ruin your relationship. Identify these red flags and try to mitigate their damage as soon as possible for the health and longevity of your romantic relationship.
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